Idaho murders: Ethan Chapin's parents break silence on last time they saw son

Skagit Valley Tulip Festival honors Ethan Chapin

Ethan was one of the four University of Idaho students allegedly killed by Bryan Kohberger in November. He worked at Tulip Valley Farms, so the organization has created a tulip bulb just for him, called Ethan's Smile.

MOUNT VERNON, Wash. - Jim and Stacy Chapin left the University of Idaho on Nov. 6, 2022, trading high-fives, the satisfaction sinking in that their triplets were "having the time of their lives."

"We drove out of town that Sunday morning … and we literally high-fived each other that day," Stacy recalled. "We literally congratulated each other. We were like, ‘We’ve done it, we've done it. They're ‘adulting.’ They're kind. We've done it. We can rest easy."

There was no way they could have known what was coming.

Just seven days later, their 20-year-old son Ethan was brutally murdered alongside his girlfriend, 20-year-old Xana Kernodle, and her roommates Madison Mogen, 21, and Kaylee Goncalves, 21.

Their murders and the aftermath captivated the country and rocked the Chapin family to its core, throwing them into the "depths of hell," as Stacy describes it.

The Chapins are slowly emerging from those depths and breaking their months-long silence.

Standing in a tulip field not far from where his triplets grew up in Skagit Valley, Washington, Jim fought back tears as he recalled the last time he spoke to his son.

"We said goodbye in the parking lot Saturday night," Jim recalled. "Sigma Chi house. Gave him a hug. Told him to be safe. And that was the last time."

The Chapins aren’t angry, they insisted, although no one would blame them. Jim offered a firm and brief explanation about why.

"That’s negative energy, and it’s not worth it," he said.

"It's an honest answer," Stacy added. "It's a tough hand to be dealt, but we can't change the outcome."

Instead, they've channeled their grief into a foundation in Ethan’s honor, 'Ethan’s Smile.' It started out at Tulip Valley Farms in Mount Vernon, Washington, where Jim and Stacy met with Fox News Digital.

Ethan worked for the owner of the farm during the COVID-19 lockdown of 2020. After Ethan’s murder, the farm created the ‘Ethan’s Smile’ tulip mix. The Chapins launched the foundation with funds from the sales of the mix and bulbs.

‘Ethan’s Smile' will fund scholarships for students in Skagit Valley, Washington, to the University of Idaho.

The foundation is also what brought them out of five months of silence.

After the murders, the Chapins locked down. Stacy, Jim and Ethan's surviving triplets, Hunter and Maizie, shut in and spent two months together.

Etched deeply into Stacy's mind was the vivid recollection of how they navigated through that challenging time.

"We just walked it out. Talked. Told stories. Cried," Stacy said. "One day, I was out walking by myself. I was crying so hard. I happened upon somebody. And I thought they were going to call 911 on me."

Now, they look for small victories in each day, like how the community at the University of Idaho has embraced them, recently making Jim and Stacy honorary graduates.

Another "big win" for the Chapins: Maizie was named the "sweetheart" of Sigma Chi, the fraternity Ethan belonged to. Her brother Hunter was there as she received the honor.

But they know it won't all be easy.

"I just realized the next milestone is gonna be Mother's Day. That's going to be a tough one," Stacy said.

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Last year, Ethan celebrated his mom by sending her the new Morgan Wallen song, "Thought You Should Know." Wallen wrote it for his own mother. The song includes the line, "All those prayers you thought you wasted on me must’ve finally made their way on through."

"He was like, ’Mom, that’s pretty fitting for you,’" Stacy recalled. "It will now always forever be my most favorite song," Stacy said. "You wish you could be like, ‘Hey, Morgan Wallen, let me tell you how much you’ve touched our life by that.'"

The Chapins, though, do not live with "what-ifs."

Jim says he has "no regrets whatsoever" as he remembers building sand castles with his kids when they were younger and cribbage tournaments in recent years.

Their family motto: Go big or go home.

They explained how they worked hard for the life they have. Jim has three kids from a previous marriage, but fertility issues plagued him and Stacy. Finally, in true "go big or go home fashion," Stacy was pregnant with triplets.

"I thought it was an interesting gift," Jim laughed.